So I found this drafted post from last semester sometime, I think it still has a significant amount of relevance - perhaps even more now then it did then... anyways a flash back to Developmental Psych.... (PS - I did good on this test)
Review.
There are three parts in the triangle of a relationship - Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment.
The goal is to have all three in an equal balance. any other combination = disaster.
Life isn't about finding the "other half" of the scissor - rather its about finding someone who will cut the same direction as you. In other words find some one that you WANT to be with - not because you HAVE to (ie no dependent or co dependent Relations) - this way both people can serve each other in a balanced cycle instead of the typical draining one.
My brain is fried. silly test tomorrow... Good night.
I believed in studying just because I knew education was a privilege. It was the discipline of study, to get into the habit of doing something that you don't want to do.
Wynton Marsalis
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